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December 7 Daily Devotional

As a Mother ... As a Father

Charles and Norma Ellis

Bible Reading:

1 Thessalonians 2:1-12

1For yourselves, brethren, know our entrance in unto you, that it was not in vain:
2But even after that we had suffered before, and were shamefully entreated, as ye know, at Philippi, we were bold in our God to speak unto you the gospel of God with much contention.
3For our exhortation was not of deceit, nor of uncleanness, nor in guile:
4But as we were allowed of God to be put in trust with the gospel, even so we speak; not as pleasing men, but God, which trieth our hearts.
5For neither at any time used we flattering words, as ye know, nor a cloke of covetousness; God is witness:
6Nor of men sought we glory, neither of you, nor yet of others, when we might have been burdensome, as the apostles of Christ.
7But we were gentle among you, even as a nurse cherisheth her children:
8So being affectionately desirous of you, we were willing to have imparted unto you, not the gospel of God only, but also our own souls, because ye were dear unto us.
9For ye remember, brethren, our labour and travail: for labouring night and day, because we would not be chargeable unto any of you, we preached unto you the gospel of God.
10Ye are witnesses, and God also, how holily and justly and unblameably we behaved ourselves among you that believe:
11As ye know how we exhorted and comforted and charged every one of you, as a father doth his children,
12That ye would walk worthy of God, who hath called you unto his kingdom and glory.

Devotional:

Paul says that he and his colleagues had cared for the Thessalonians as gently as 'a nursing mother tenderly cares for her own children' (2:7 NASB). God has placed in the mother-heart a tender concern for her young, even a fierce protective concern that is specially evident in times when danger threatens. In the last day, we are told, there is to be expected a lack of natural affection. When we read of desertion, child-beating, abortion, we know that we are in the last days. Even among mothers who are horrified at these deeds, however, there may be a self-interest that belies the plan of God for the care of little children. Is the mother who seeks employment outside the home unnecessarily, leaving her children to baby-sitters, tenderly caring for them?

'... You know how we were exhorting and encouraging and imploring each one of you as a father would his own children' (2:11 NASB). Paul goes on to describe further how he and his colleagues dealt with the Thessalonians. Christian fathers are so to deal with their own children. We are reminded of the words of Psalm 103:13,14 in this connection: 'Like as a father pitieth his children, so the Lord pitieth them that fear him. For he knoweth our frame; he remembereth that we are dust.' Fathers are to remember that their children, like themselves, are dust and that they are born in sin. Fathers are to take the frailties of their children into account, showing patience along with firmness, and being ever so careful not to require more than the child can be expected to give!

Mother, how much do you care for your little children, for their souls as well as their bodies? Fathers, do you really try to put yourselves in the place of your children? How much encouragement do you give them? Do you urge them to live lives worthy of God? Or do you leave these tender functions to your wives? What is the depth and quality of your concern for your children?


We are happy to have obtained permission to post as our current daily devotional Heirs Together of Life: Daily Bible Reading for Husbands and Wives, published by The Banner of Truth Trust. Don't be misled by the subtitle. As the book's "Preface" indicates (see below), although Heirs Together of Life is "especially prepared for couples,"the authors declare, "Since the basis for this guide is God's Word, we believe it would have value for any reader."

Charles and Norma Ellis are husband and wife and the authors not only of Heirs Together of Life (which was first published in 1980 and continues in print today), but also of Wells of Salvation (first published in 1985, and likewise still in print today). The latter contains a series of short studies covering the entire book of Isaiah, while the former contains a series of almost 200 short studies covering the entire Bible, from Genesis to Revelation. Both books by the Ellises can be ordered from the publisher, The Banner of Truth Trust. We trust that these daily Bible readings, posted daily on our site, will be helpful to you in your Christian walk before God. Whether married or not, all of us are members of families and members of the family of God.

Charles Ellis was educated at Wheaton College and Westminster Theological Seminary. Upon graduation from Westminster (where he earned not only a Th.B. but also a Th.M.), he was ordained to the ministry in the Orthodox Presbyterian Church and pastored a number of OPC churches, including Immanuel OPC in West Collingswood, New Jersey; First OPC in Cincinnati, Ohio; Covenant OPC in East Orange, New Jersey; Knox OPC in Silver Spring, Maryland; and Lakeview OPC in Rockport, Maine. Less biographical information is available about his wife, but it is known that they served as parents of seven children. After retiring from the ministry, Charles Ellis went to be with the Lord in 2003, but he and his wife left us with a beautiful legacy in the two books they have given to the world, and we are proud to share the daily Bible readings from Heirs Together of Life here with you.

 

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